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[ from a. addair who is listening to Sondre Lerche (Faces Down) ]
Things I was thinking about as I made this painting:
celebration flag banners
“this is the beginning of a parade”
surrendering to the story
miracles and magic
simple delights and surprises
interlaced plum trees
hope and community
life and color
Many of the words on this list came from the wedding inspiration list which I thought was beautiful and delightfully imaginative. It was so fun get creative with you. Thank you for the opportunity.
I loved your vision for the ceremony, it allowed me to engage in thinking about marriage in some fresh ways. Through the painting, I wanted to honor the unique particulars of your union and offer a perspective from our own married adventure as a hopefully useful and encouraging gift. I think Alain de Botton communicates this best when he says, “We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failures to grow anything beautiful from them”. Levon and I are incredibly grateful for our happy marriage, but whenever I attend a wedding I can’t help but to remember the troublesome parts that arrived so quickly after the vows and shape so much of who we are.
The imagery is mostly taken from the setting of your ceremony: the backyard garden, Park Ridge, flags and lights draped from tents and trees and you both promising your love under interlaced plum branches decorated with fabric and family photographs.
These are the impressions I want to communicate through the painting, but I’ve kept the imagery loose and abstract because a mere depiction of the setting couldn’t capture the mysterious joy-sadness, family melding, and vastness in the atmosphere of sacred vows.
Circles are the basis for many of the elements in the painting. The symbolism inherent in circles communicates the wholeness and cyclical nature of what a marriage can mean. Many of the circular elements were made by painting on a plastic sheet. Once dry, the paint circles were peeled off and either cut in half to form the flags on the banners or folded and clustered together to form flowers. I think this process is appropriate for the ways that we function as elements made in one context and given meaning in another. We are both parts and completed wholes as we live out our vows to not only our spouses but to our families and communities.
I find the symbolism in wedding traditions powerful because of the threads (think flag banners even) they weave over time and through generations and so I used some of those practices in the making of the painting. For instance, I painted the white, tree cluster-cloud element as if it were icing on a wedding cake. And I pinned the flowers onto the ground as a boutonniere to a jacket lapel.
“A real work, like a real love, takes not only passion but a certain daily, obsessive, tenacious, illogical form of insanity to keep it alive” -David Whyte
This is my wish to you, Amelia and Josh. Your wedding day was beautiful and I’m so grateful to have been a part of it and now may you insanely follow the love you declared under that 5.21 sunshine.
Blessings and thank you,
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